Cases of Men falling in Love with housemaids even when they are married are on the rise nowadays
Not long ago, a woman collapsed dead after finding her husband in the arms of there housemaid. She is not alone. Lovers have split and families have broken up as a result of this problem.
But where is the problem ? here are the reasons why this problem is occurring.
1. Great cooks
The best way to get to a man’s heart is through his stomach, it is said. If you are a woman and you know you are poor at cooking, just know you are in trouble. The day your house help- if she is good at cooking- will prepare food for your husband is the day your hubby may be taken away.
2. The house help does most chores that involve squatting and bending. If the man of the house is around and they see this, then they start thinking with the smaller head. One Johnson admits to have fallen victim of this.
3. If the madam of the house denies them conjugal, then they can seek pleasure elsewhere, the maid comes across as an easy lay.
4. These women are often young, single, struggling with financial issues, and the men of this house can use this to lure them.
5. The maid does basically everything especially if the madam is a career woman. The ‘mboch’ cooks, serves and even irons the clothes of the mister. Men are attracted to ‘homely’ women.
6. If house-help is attractive- You are a married woman? Never hire a lady who is more attractive than you as a house help. Never hire a lady who puts on short skirts in the house when your husband is around. Hire one and you would have ruined your marriage.
7. For most men, Cheating is just a norm for them