ONE man has been left utterly fuming after discovering his wife has been having an affair for three years – with none other than his twin brother.
Stating that he had “absolute trust” in both his wife and twin prior to this discovery, the man said: “I have no brother at this point.”
The man discovered the affair was going on for over three yearsThe man discovered the affair was going on for over three yearsTaking to Reddit to air his frustration, the man said he found out about the three-year affair two weeks ago and since then it has torn him and the family apart.
He said: “I never imagined the two people I was closest to in this world would do something so vile and destructive. 6 families are destroyed, my mother other siblings are caught in the middle.”
“I can’t imagine what they are feeling. My wife’s family is devastated as well. I adored her family and was so proud and honoured to be a part of it” he added.
The hubby said that he never would have thought anything about his wife’s relationship with his brother, nor did his twin’s wife suspect anything.
“My twin and my wife had absolute trust, I had no reason to think otherwise. They would play games together, I had zero issues with my twin and my wife being together” he said.
Adding “My sister-in-law pretty much assumed their relationship was like ours. Strictly platonic and a great friend. Everyone needs someone to lean on during difficult times.”
The man also said that three years ago, when the affair had started, was when he married his wife, and his twin was his best man at the wedding.
The couple bought a home shortly after and work was going in the right direction for both of them, he assumed they were happy.
The man now says he is completely lost in what to do, and although his wife is apologetic he feels like she is only sorry because she got caught.
“I can’t think straight, my wife keeps telling me she’s sorry but those sorry lose their lustre and meaning when used so frequently,” he said.
Adding: My brother didn’t even have the balls to admit it. He had this dumbfounded look on his face and it took everything in me to restrain myself.
The man now feels like his family has been blown apart, and life will never be the same as every birthday celebration was spent with his wife and twin.
“I can’t look at my wife without thinking of what they have done together. I try to hug her and I will get a whiff of her smell and imagine my brother smelling the same thing, or picturing the unthinkable in my bed” he said.
What is your advise ?
One person said: “She’s sorry? 3.5 years/42 months/ 3 years and 6 months of cheating. The only thing that I can tell you is to cut your ties with them as long as you want.”
“Your twin brother is a messed up dude as there are certain boundaries you never cross. My advice, stop speaking to your brother until you can truly forgive him. As far as your wife, unfortunately, she’s for the streets” said another.