After surveying more than five thousand people from ninety-six different countries, a study from Binghamton University found out that after a breakup, men tend to engage in more “destructive” behaviors. The lead of the study, Craig Morris, put it like this:
“Men report more feelings of anger and engage in more self-destructive behaviors than women. Women, in comparison, frequently feel more depressed and participate in more social, affiliative behaviors than men
men are brought up with a traditionally masculine approach to emotions, are taught to, you know, man up. That means retaining your independence, never asking for help and always appearing strong and in control
Here are the things men do after break up
1 Drink like crazy – Heart Break for a man who drinks translates to drinking like never before to calm feelings
2 Can resort to going out with a random girls even if she is from club or Bar. All he wants is to have fun and nothing else
3. Remember long time ex girlfriend and make call to her.
4 Self-destructive behaviors such as drinking and drug abuse.
5. Revenge – When the guys’ pride after breakup is hurt, revenge becomes a common theme. “They feel that their ex has broken their heart and destroyed their life, so it’s only fair that they’re made to pay for the damage
6. Reach out for her friends
This is another visible change to a guy’s behavior after a breakup.
7 Try to get back together
Everyone who has ever broken up with their boyfriend would have received this call. Out of the blue, his name flashes up on your phone, you pick up and he wants to get back together.
8 Question their place in the world –
After a breakup, guys go through a period of introspection and they aren’t always kind to themselves
9. Re-evaluate the relationships they have
This is an unnoticed change in a guy’s behavior after a breakup. Guys pay attention to the relationships they do have with friends and family
10. There are also some men who will be so traumatized and wounded to the point that they will swear off dating and love forever
11.Some men are going to just erase you like a virus on a computer. They will want to move on from their breakup and relationship as quickly as possible
12.They will try to reconcile using close friends